50 shades of gray or the pleasure that BDSM games carry.
BDSM subculture is fraught with inexplicable magnetic attractiveness for many. This is not surprising, because nature in man has a tendency to subordinate and dominance. Those who do not feel part of this subculture, who are not imbued with its universe, some of the moments simply scare. For example, a feeling of pain, as well as a potential risk to health that it entails. So what is more important – deliver pleasure or hurt?
BDSM is a sexual subculture based on the exchange of power at the sexual -erotic level. Is the basic component of role -playing games that provide a clear distinction between domination and submission. The goal pursued by the participants of the BDSM is to achieve sexual excitement and get psychophysical pleasure through a voluntary violation of socio-detached foundations and taboos. That is, the participants of the BDSM of actions enjoy and excitement from the role that they are assigned to the BDSM – the role of the master or subordinate (slave).
A striking example of BDSM-executions are the heroes of the work of Erica Leonard James «50 shades of grey», For a few months of a superbesseller status in the United States. The young man introduces his passion to sex «In the style of BDSM». Initially, the girl is afraid of pain, but, revealing to her all the facets of this subculture, the main character opens the marvelous world of pleasure.
The basis of the subculture of the BDSM is 3 principles, which distinguish this direction from the list of similar aggressive and criminal actions – this is SSC. As you probably guessed, this is the abbreviation of the English words Sane (voluntary beginning), SAFE (security), consensual (rationality). Moreover, the participants of the BDSM games use special stop words that signal the need to lower or increase the force aimed at the subordinate, or completely terminate any BDSM-action BDSM
«Pain – Oxygular stone in BDSM, ”Christian Gray tells his lover. – If you think that pleasure stems directly from her undergoing or causing, you are mistaken. A person receives pleasure from violation of the generally accepted taboos, the secret laws of society, a sense of all -consuming power over the body of a partner».
In this case, the hero means that severe physical pain is not mandatory, because the overwhelming part of the pleasure is coming «From the head». Nevertheless, the faces of that very incredible sensation are determined by the role in the BDSM that a person chooses.
Dominant. «Upper» Partner, Mr., Master
The greatest pleasure gets from the sensation of total power over a partner. To achieve such a state, in addition to proper behavior and return of orders, help BDSM-tools:
- Attributics – whips, high heels, latex costumes, belts, etc.D.;
- Binding – bondage;
- Mummification – the procedure for wrapping a partner in bandages or film until it is completely immobilized;
- Change of roles – For example, a woman can feel like a man with a strapon);
For those who wish to practice light forms of BDSM, binding or beaches are suitable for handcuffs. The helpless partner will be completely in your power, allowing you to do what you want with him. And the most interesting thing is that both participants will enjoy the incomparable.
On the growing wave of popularity of the book "Fifty Shades of Gray" The manufacturer of toys for BDSM-IGR has developed a special series of devices on «50 shades of gray»! This is incredible, but toys were created, which, to some extent, became the heroes of the story, all of them are made in gray tones, without leaving the storyline.
Submissive. «Lower», Subordinate, slave
His pleasure is directly related to the feeling of pain. This is incredible, but a certain number of people experience strong excitement only after verbal humiliation or flogging (flagellation). Asphyxia (breathing games) and the bondage open the radically new facets of pleasure, because the lack of oxygen helps to exacerbate all sensations, in particular, sexual. For those, who «longer in the topic» There are games with knives, «torture of the nipples», Pony-Plain and other no less exciting types of BDSM-IGR. Unconditional submission to the dominant allows the submissive to experience new facets of Freedom, to live a new other life during a sexual game.
No doubt the pain – Mandatory satellite of BDSM-Review, but you only have to realize that the acts of violence in BDSM are more than a game, and not an end in itself, and the incredible orgasm power will not allow you to refuse such satisfaction.