BDSM councils for “vanilla” steam steam.
Bad sex – This is not a session with handcuffs and a whip. Bad sex – This is a boring, monotonous, routine intimate life. BDSM can be a prevention of stagnation in sex. Unless, of course, you dare this step.
BDSM – it’s nice?
For some people BDSM – This is a way of life. The dominants dictate the rules not only in bed to their slaves, but also regulate the smallest household details, such as: what to wear today or what to have breakfast. But this does not mean that once having tasted the forbidden fruit of BDSM, you will need to rebuild relationships in the plane «Master-Rab». No, contrary to a common misconception, many couples practice BDSM just for the sake of sexual diversity.
But how the pain can be pleasant? Again, this is another huge misconception that in the BDSM someone must cause someone suffering. No, BDSM is not about pain at all, BDSM – This is the communication of partners and mutual trust. Yes, the Dominant partner will be allowed to go beyond the ordinary in their actions, but these boundaries are in advance. If you bind, then how can it be, but how not. If oral sex, then in what forms. The subordinate partner trusts the dominant, and he, in turn, justifies confidence, and this experience strengthens a romantic relationship, even more binds partners to each other.
BDSM – This is a wide range of sexual practices in which everyone will find their own. This mysterious abbreviation is deciphered as follows:
- BD = Bondage + Discipline. That is, the binding or restriction of mobility and role -playing games, in which one of the partners acts as a subordinate.
- Ds = dominance + subordination. This is precisely the type of relationship given in an example above, in which one partner has power over another and can dispose of his life, to one degree or another.
- Cm = sadism + masochism. These are extreme practices in which one of the partners enjoys causing pain, and the second – her receipt.
Of course, everyone chooses a practice, depending on personal addictions. But for beginners, we would advise to limit ourselves to the first four.