The collar is the main symbol of submission.
Modern man is very often in stressful situations, accumulates aggression and dissatisfaction with life. Keep it in itself at some point it becomes impossible. And here are screams for children, scandals with loved ones, rudeness towards colleagues. But you can aggression and fatigue from constant pressure at work to transform into sexual energy. "Impossible!" – You say. "All in your hands!" – We will answer. And we will tell you how!
BDSM Practice
It is with the help of this practice that many secret desires can be fulfilled.
Every day we perform the same actions, we live according to the work-work-work, we become hostages of the prevailing scenario of behavior and life. Everything is so gray, ordinary and safe, and the soul asks for adventures and action.
BDSM Practice for those who are looking for emotional discharge, want spicy sensations, pepper in relationships, adrenaline, to be in the face of danger, experience fear, pain and great pleasure.
The subculture consists of individual directions focused on the preferences of the game participants: binding (bandage), flogging (spanking), power and subordination, Peter and overboard, fisting and much more.
All these games may not lead to intercourse, but to be a separate action.
The main thing in this practice is to obtain psychophysical pleasure from forbidden things, violation of the rules, From the fact that everyone knows you as a modest and quiet person, but here you are a brutal male or a cruel lady.
According to statistics, sexual fantasy of many women is rape, rough use of force to commit sexual contact. Men dreams of sparkling their other half or shut up her mouth, show who is here "With eggs". Therefore, more often the dominant role is taken by men, the role of a subordinate – women.
Always remember that in this subculture there is an immutable rule – security, rationality, voluntariness.
BDSM Attributics
We divide accessories for games into the following categories:
- To deprive the partner of the sensory perception of the world – gag, mask;
- for flogging – belt, whip, Paddle, rods, stack;
- To cause pain, medical fetish – clamps on the nipples and genitals (type Clamp on the penis), restraints of erection, catheters, Expanders;
- To fix the partner in a certain position – handcuffs, All kinds of bandages, collars, spacers.
Moreover, the most striking attribute of BDSM can be called exactly collar.
This is a symbol of total control and unconditional submission. It can be worn not only during the game, but also to wear everyday.
For a submissive, great pride to decorate your neck with a collar, thereby noting the presence "The owner".
Collar and leash the necessary attribute of the game of Peter "lower" plays the role of the animal. And today we will devote our guide to this particular accessory.
What are the collars
- Let’s start with the material. From natural ones, the skin is most often used or suede. The material is good because the neck does not sweat under it, and the collar itself does not lose its shape over time. And such a thing looks expensive.
Cheaper option – artificial leather. As a rule, the inner surface of the collar is additionally laid with a fur or soft cloth. There are very glamorous and cute accessories for "pets". Luxurious and stylish collars from lace and fabric look.
Foamy neoprene – another material for the collar, good for beginners, does not squeeze the throat, does not violate blood circulation.
For those who love brutal things, of course, metal collars. - The width of the collar. If a strong effect on the neck is assumed, it is better to choose a wide one, since the narrow one can dig into the throat and leave the visible trace.
Although maybe someone needs it. - Appearance. Well, there is where to walk around, starting from simple to hardcore with huge spikes.
There are models made of a single piece of material, and there are collected for nickel -high rings. - Rigidity. Pay attention to the stiffness of the product. A thing of soft material is quickly stretched, from hard it can cause discomfort and rubbed his neck.
- Fixation – buttons, Velcro, buckle. Convenient Velcro clamp provides a tight fit and accurate adjustment in size.
But stay in long sessions will be better than a collar on a button or belt. - The leash in the kit can be, or there may be no. There are leashes in the form of a belt or chain. Carbines for a leash plastic or metal.
On almost any collar you can buy a leash additionally. - Appointment. The collar is put on not only the neck.
There are excellent options for this attribute for the penis. The penis on the penis can consist of one, two or three fixing strips. There are such accessories as a collar sealed with chains, with handcuffs and fixers of ankles, with clamps on nipples and labia, collars with harness.
Choose a collar
- If you are more impressed by simple universal things, then Long leash collar The Lux Fetish brand will definitely taste.
Soft neoprene comfortably and reliably wraps the neck. This accessory is suitable for both men and women – the model has an adjustable girth due to a clasp on Velcro. The length of the leash allows you to use it for fixing the hands.
Lux Fetish offers many other interesting things for BDSM games. - Stylish simplicity differs things from the Toyfa brand from the collection Theatre.
Leather collars with fasteners on a lock or buttons, with spikes and without, and just chic A collar of suede – This can be put on with an evening dress.
Comfortable bandage sets are also made of genuine leather with mounting on the chain. - The next collection from the same brand – Marcus.
Exquisite black lace on a purple, red or silver background will make a slave truly beautiful. Lining material – soft fleece, it will be pleasant to the slave. Metal carbine and short leash complement the list of advantages of this option.
- A huge selection of collars from genuine and artificial leather was presented by the Russian brand BDSM Arsenal.
Qualitatively made classic, wide and medium collars. Fur locks on the buttons, for decor, the combination of skin color red and black color, rivets are mainly used for decor.
There are models Profnings with a collar, Thanks to adjustment on the back and neck, they will perfectly sit on any figure. And the belts laid around the chest will visually increase its size and emphasize femininity. - It will cost you a little more harnessing such a plan From the Dutch manufacturer Shots Media.
There is an option on belts, there is a whole bikini On chains. - Brand Podium offers merciless and harsh BDSM accessories.
Metal collar with rivets on a soft lining, a wide collar With a number of spikes, harness on the phallus and scrotum.
- Russian company Sitabella I introduced a wide range of collars from different materials: neoprene, from black, white, red, silver leather, vinyl, transparent plastic.
Modest Chockers with a pattern of hearts, suitable for everyday wear. Wide and narrow with rivets, medium and large spikes – more thematic.This option Convenient in that you do not need to look for a loop for a leash, here you can fix the leash to any of the rings. And it looks good on the neck with a suitable outfit style – you can drive to work or study.
Great model: The collar-barking From black leather – a wide collar on a soft lining and a strip of skin under the chest are interconnected by 3 adjustable belts.pay attention to Land for the scrotum From the same brand.
You can punish your man, make him obey your will. There is a fixation of 1, 2 or 3 strap. The more straps, the less chance to injure – the load will be distributed over the larger area and the pain will be felt less.
Well, less likely that the lower elm is eliminated from punishment – it is better on the penis.
- The designer little things include a neoprene collar with a short leash in the form of a loop from the Lelo brand –Speak No Evil Choker Picobong. The combination of pink and black, tenderness and vice – it is created in order to turn the queen into a luxurious slave. Universal, fixed using Velcro.
- Another brand producing feminine and stylish devices for BDSM games – Bijoux Indiscrets. Very erotic and sensual accessory collar with a length brush in the form of a whip. The elegant thing looks gorgeous both on a naked chest and in the neckline of the evening dress. The same effect from metal sexual collar collar With chains and a ring for a leash.
- A collar with a lock From the cult brand Tom of Finland is not a cheap device. It looks very brutally, clearly, without unnecessary details, the size is adjusted to the belt and is finally fixed with a hinged lock. That is, only the one who has a key can remove the collar. In front of a ring for fastening a leash.
Land the same manufacturer is sold separately.
In general, this brand was called on the name of the Finnish artist, who presented in his pencil drawings of gays not sweet boys, but courageous, muscular soldiers in uniform, bikers in the skin, lumberjacks in jeans in tightening. These heroes with square jaws and huge members laid the foundation for an entire era of homoerotic art.
There are inexpensive, but practical options for collars and leashes for beginners or not bothering about the appearance.
And there are collars-production arts for those who have been wearing their fetish, who was happy to give himself to the dominant.
In any case, the choice is yours.
Choose a leash
Of course, the collar can be worn without a leash, but this addition will make your game more interesting and diverse. And most likely the image "animal" in the loop will not be complete and organic without this thing.
When choosing a collar, pay attention to whether there is a kit Land or you need to buy it separately.
Decide on the length – Will your slave be on a short leash or will you let him "run".
A long leash can also be used to bind a partner.
Convenient if there is a loop at the end of the leash.
Metal carbine is considered more durable. A chain or belt is a matter of taste. Although with a strap you can also spank the naughty lower.