About cunnilingus: how to hint at oral sex and persuade the guy on the cooney.
You know what gives a woman a special surge of strength and confidence in her attractiveness and desire? Of course, cunnilingus is an unearthly bliss in which some guys refuse girls without explaining the reason. Such oral caresses are very close, allow partners to show the highest degree of trust, but men persistently deprive this pleasure of even loved ones. What is the cause of antipathy and some disgust to a pleasant occupation? Women do not know how to interest? Or just you need to do the right thing hint at oral sex and persuade to do kuni gradually? Let’s figure it out.
To begin with, the opponents of Kuni are often justified by a greater love for classic vaginal penetration, and oral sex in men’s performance is considered perversions that are unworthy of a “real kid”. However, our expensive anticunitors rarely refuse a blowjob in their direction. And do not try to compare their pleasure from a penis in his mouth with ordinary penetration. Where’s the justice? Indeed, for some ladies, the vaginal orgasm remains a mystery, and the clitoral pleases with its appearance not so often. It turns out that the girl ends with Kuni, and this is the only way to achieve the climax, but they do not intentionally give her. The notorious male egoism?
Why a man refuses to do cunnilingus
As we have already said, The main reason for the man’s refusal of Cooney is selfishness, based on stupid beliefs that the “real man” does not fall to the licking of the female crotch. Girls who love cunnilingus, it will be very difficult for you to convince such a character in the opposite! In general, this is not a royal thing – to bring a woman to orgasm orally! But in addition to selfishness, there are other reasons why a man does not want to do Cooney.
Stereotypes and complexes
The spirit of Soviet strict education still has echoes in sexual relations. It is difficult for men born before the collapse of the Union. Oral affection for them are unnatural in principle. Make Kuni to his wife is not just humiliating, but ashamed!
If a man abandons Kuni due to religious, social and cultural beliefs, it is useless to re -educate him! He simply will not understand hints of oral sex, and the open coercion will accept for insult. This is a hopelessly lost copy! As they say, if your husband is a priest, read prayers at night.
Psychological unpreparedness, awkwardness, shame
There are men who are shy and awkward in nature, who participate in wild orgies in dreams and fantasies, but in fact show stiffness. They cannot be liberated because they are afraid to look stupid in the eyes of a partner. Competent approach, and he will cast you by 5 points! Such “nuts” click on one or two!
Inexperience
Inexperienced men (not always, by the way, young and young) refuse to caress the woman orally only because they are afraid to make a mistake, do everything ugly and wrong. They worry that they will not justify her hopes, so it’s easier to deny the desires of the partner. A man painfully accepts a negative characteristic regarding his bed skills – all males want to be the best! Perhaps the previous woman did not appreciate his efforts, saying about it without abysses, than caused a real injury to his pride.
Mental illness
We hope you don’t sleep with the psychos! Schizophrenics, guys with obsessive-compulsive disorder, obsessive conditions, panic attacks and similar deviations are generally dangerous. You never know what a person will appear in the place of your vagina?
Does not accept female dominance
If it is not possible to persuade the guy to cunnilingus, most likely he is one of those who are excited from dominance of a woman, and not vice versa. It would seem that the oral caresses of the crotch is the full power over the body of the partner, but not. It can be psychologically crushed by the favorite female position in which Cooney is made – she is on her back with her legs spread, and he is between her legs. Look for another pose for oral sex, in which he can experience other sensations.
Disgust and squeamishness
Your boyfriend may not like the smell, taste, increased hairyness of your “girlfriend”. A healthy girl watching her hygiene and health has no such problems. Kuni after the shower, smooth pussy, the smell of soap or its complete absence cannot turn away.
Girls, if you take care of yourself, are overgrown regularly, and the man still assures that he is disgusted, think about his mental health. Aversion to the female genitals at this level is not normal for the male population. Drive him to a sexologist or find another partner.
Jealousy to the past
You never thought that squeamishness could be associated with jealousy to your past? The idea that you were “loved” from a dozen members can cause complete apathy. To make a girl to a girl after others is already an addiction of cuckolds with sexwife, and not a heteronated man with a classic perception of a woman and sex.
The abandonment of Kuni due to jealousy to the past is not often occurs, because the main mass of modern men is generally indifferent to the number of sexual partners of their chosen one, but such a reversal of events should not be excluded.
How best to hint at the guy in the cooney, some tips
But still there is a conditional instruction with which you can persuade a man to the cooney. This is not always an open request, but a series of hints pushing the male on the right path. Only a completely stupid will not understand them.
Inadvertently “sleep”
You can hint about your desire, as if by chance, leaving in the browser an uncompressed tab with a selection of relevant photos or videos. A man will have to think about the hidden desires of a girl who almost always prevails and force to experiment. Similarly, you can do some glossy magazine, leaving it as if by chance open in a prominent place. An article with an alluring name and intriguing pictures should attract attention. By the way, in such publications, cunnilingus is not described as something shameful for a man – it may be so possible to convince the guy to try to give pleasure to the partner.
The story of a girlfriend
Tell him at your leisure how your friend is abruptly satisfied. And he does it successfully only thanks to cunnilingus! When you compose a story, a light should burn in the eyes, and according to your words, the guy is simply obliged to understand that you are jealous of her. This approach acts as a challenge – you threaten and doubt its sexual achievements! Some neighbor Vasya appears better a woman? Most likely, he wants to surpass this “lizun”.
Joint View Porn about Cooney
A clear hint is enough, if not more. Turn on the porn where the man “from and to” licks the pussy. And regularly determine your attention to a video of this nature. Say you also want to try so.
Open masturbation will help to move to the active actions of your stubborn aesthet. You can wrap your fingers while watching porn or after. Few men will remain indifferent to such a sight.
Accustom a little bit
Do not immediately lower his head there and force him to lick everything up to a millimeter. Let it reach such caresses gradually. Direct with a gesture to the right place, tell me what you like when they kiss here and there. Let the tip of the tongue touch the clitoris, kiss the labia, stroke the entrance to the vagina with a finger. If he is very excited, intuitively will do everything himself.
Do not like the smell
If the guy does not like the smell of the vagina or he considers it not sufficiently exciting, you can use special oral lubricants-they are not sold in every sex shop and are expensive, but they are worth it. Lubrices for cunnilingus or blowjob are available with various taste and aromatic additives, which, incidentally, enhance excitement. So he will not just decide to make Cooney – he will definitely like it!
Please note that in our sex shop there are cool gels and lubricants specifically for oral sex: with a smell and taste, completely neutral, exciting and others. You can use oils with Aphrodesal after taking a shower-only 2-3 droplets of such a remedy applied to the crotch will arouse a partner more than usual.
Ask your beloved what kind of intimate hairstyles he likes. Suddenly he cannot stand the “bald sphinxes” and simply loves the “fluffy Persians”, and you persistently shave everything to the state of the bald knee!? Everything is individual here. A matter of taste, as they say.
Sex in the bathroom
The excellent alternative for disgust will be sex in the shower, where the genitals are always in perfect condition, and soapy bodies and streaming streams of water flowing on it even more. In addition, shower, directed to the right place, will become an additional exciting stimulation for both partners.
Mutual affection or profitable barter
The first thing to start was to start is your own example. Try to apply the law “You me, and I to you”. The main thing is no blackmail, but also without concessions. Perfectly use playful hints and coquetry. If oral sex in your pair is something unfamiliar to both, then it is best to open new horizons together. In general, blowjob in exchange for kuni and vice versa. A fairly effective option.
Ultimatum
Not so effective, but also tested, sometimes even very successful! If a man refuses to do Cooney, arguing that this humiliation is dirty and so on blah blah, harshly react to a refusal of a blowjob. Do you want me to suck your cock? Then do me kuni. If for you this humiliation and dirt, then I will not humiliate and get dirty. Or barter, or terminate the “deal”.
If you are mumbling, who in any way wants to keep a man near him, even with his own humiliation and deprivation of pleasure, do not use this method. You can be repaired, and you will pour the crocodiles of tears for a long time on the “single and unique”.
Change the poses
If a man refuses Kuni due to a painful perception of his masculinity in a subordinate position, offer him a “69” pose, where he is from above, or the famous and beloved “doggie”, in which he again dominates. It is possible that a man, albeit not the first time, but still show interest in oral affection and give you an unforgettable cunnilingus.
Do not talk about your past
You never know how jealous a man, even if he claims the opposite. He was not jealous of ten girls before you because he did not like. And the beloved will be jealous even to the past! Often, such men themselves are surprised at so new and unusual feelings for them. Therefore, girls, never tell your lovers about the sexual experiments that they had in the past! He is the second with you, in extreme cases – the third)))
Teach it to do it correctly
Inexperienced, shy men need your leadership. Tell them what you want from oral affection, how much you like, which places to caress and what to touch. Explain that you experience an unprecedented surge of strength from cunnilingus, you are wildly excited, you consider this a complete acceptance of yourself on his part (which you just need sexual relations). Always carefully direct it in the right direction, roughly do not comment on minor failures. Let the guy learn how to lick a girl under your leadership correctly. Let him read thematic articles about oral caresses and show the video.
What else needs to be known to persuade the guy’s cooney
But you know, if cunnilingus for a man is banned, hardly all of the above attempts will bring a real result. There are only two options left – to buy an imitator of oral sex and get pleasure, or you will still have to say goodbye to the current partner and find a man who loves to lick pussy.
Yes, in order to persuade a guy on a cooney, who has never given oral affection for a woman in her life, she will have to spend a lot of effort. You can, of course, tell him right in the forehead – they say, I want and that’s it! But the effect of such a statement can be the opposite. A man can arise in complexes, he can accept this as criticism, he will think that in bed is not good enough. Moreover, and only hints are most often not enough. It is important that both the atmosphere correspond to, and both have a positive mood, plus a couple of female tricks – and voila! Here it is the long -awaited pleasure! Girls, all in your hands! You are more cunning, right?
Dear men, and you make Cooney to your girls? You like such oral affection? Girls, did you have to persuade the guy on cunnilingus? What methods were used? Share experience and impressions, and we are waiting for you in the comments below!