Beloved cannot finish.
The problem of the lack of climax or the complexity of its achievement is considered mainly from the female side – indeed, the beautiful half of humanity is not as fast on orgasms as men. However, in reality, not everything is so unambiguous – and the stronger floor complains that he cannot finish in bed with his beloved girl.
There can be many reasons for this, like any other intimate problems-from diseases of the endocrine system and genitals to hidden stress due to a squabble boss at work.
Health problems
Difficulties with ejaculation may well be caused by the reasons lying in the medical plane. If an orgasm does not occur not only with a partner, but also with a solo of masturbation, then it is worth undergoing an examination where the blood tests and ultrasound of the pelvic organs will give a clear picture.
The negative of orgasm negatively affects, in particular, excess weight: in order to determine your norm, you need to subtract 100 from the growth in centimeters, if the resulting figure is significantly higher than the real weight in kilograms, then this is an occasion to sit on a diet.
Fixed masturbation template
Many men with self -satisfaction create a fairly strong stimulation with a fist, which the woman’s most trained vagina is not able to provide. Gradually, a behavioral template is formed in the head, which connects the onset of orgasm only with such intensive effects.
It is possible to deal with this by weakening stimulation – during masturbation, you need to reduce the effect on the member once from time to time, accustoming yourself to end with fairly easy caresses.
In bed, a partner can help a loved one to achieve orgasm “endless entrance” technique. It is known that when exposed, the head receives more stimulation than when lowering the foreskin, so if you pass the member from the head to the base with one hand, and then do it with the other hand, ensuring the sensations of that very endless entrance, the man will have more chances to experience peak bliss.
Porn dependence
A very common situation in which a man easily finishes, looking at the wriggling bodies of porn actresses, but cannot experience pleasure when entering his beloved girl. The roots of this problem lie deep in adolescence, when the boy did not receive maternal love and could not try on the script of successful relations with women. Fear of failing in a relationship with a girl, fear of not satisfying her can affect his sexual life and lead to the fact that he prefers to self -satisfaction, looking at the stipulated sex.
The first negative sexual experience also often leads to the fact that a man chooses to watch porn with real communication with women. In any case, such conditions are better to overcome with a qualified specialist-sexologist and not wait for a deterioration in the situation.
Alcoholic and narcotic intoxication
Alcohol and drugs change the processes of excitation and inhibition in the brain, and if they are able to wake passion, then they are also able to delay the onset of orgasm, both in men and women.
A pair of glasses of wine can help to liberate in bed, but the next unknown bottle will be clearly superfluous. Drunk sex is exactly what most men and women subsequently regret.
The man does not receive the right
Each person has their own triggers that accelerate and provoke an orgasm. One stimulation of the genitals without the work of imagination and psychological effects is sometimes not enough for high -quality deep orgasm. Perhaps a man does not have enough response from a partner, if she lies like inanimate and her participation in the process can only be guessed by rapid breathing. Or maybe he wants manifestations from his girlfriend of authority, not humility?
Or on the contrary, he is given by the idea that it can be a humble slave in his hands? It is worth not being shy about asking his beloved man about his desires, perhaps he is afraid of too stormy reaction of his second half to his too bold fantasies.
Psychological stress
Unsuccessfully chosen method of contraception can kill all desires in the root – the partner will only think about whether he will have time to take out before ejaculation, which nullifies the pleasure of intimacy and moves away the onset of orgasm. Maybe give preference to oral contraceptives or a good good condom so that the head can turn off during bed games?
Problems at work, quarrel with a friend – all this does not affect sexual intercourse in the best way. A friendly environment of the house and a good prelude will help relieve stress – erotic massage in a comfortable atmosphere will provide your loved one not only persistent erection, but also emotional deep climax.
Difficulties in relationships are a very common reason for the lack of pleasure in sex. The indifferent resentment, the intransigence of the partner, her hysteria and vice, unwillingness to seek compromises can lead to a loss of interest in intimacy and lack of orgasm. Such problems affect too many areas of human life, and they should solve them in the office of a family psychologist.
If a loved one cannot finish, this is an occasion to think about what is wrong in a relationship, to analyze his feelings for him and help him in solving this problem. Two loving people are able to breathe passion into an intimate life and after many years lived together.