Flagellation – how to do it?.
Subordination of a sexual partner can bring a sea of pleasant emotions – both from a feeling of pain and from awareness of one’s own powerlessness. Sex with BDSM elements, when one partner dominates the other, makes an intimate life bright, passionate and painfully sweet. Flagellation is a special type of erotic entertainment, which is a flogging of a passive partner.
Many who heard about this method of enjoying would like to try it, but cannot decide. And in vain. The sensations from flogging are able to immerse a passive partner into real ecstasy, which, by strength and number of pleasant emotions, cannot even be compared with orgasm.
Typically, lovers of BDSM sex use flogging to subordinate and humiliation. But the flagellation can become a favorite entertainment for a couple, which is far from Sado-Mazo. Partners try on the roles of the master and slave (or vice versa) and are given to the power of animal instincts and all -consuming passion.
How to start?
First, it is advisable to come up with an erotic game script. Here a lot depends on whether the partners will be successful to select the roles. For example, the dominant may appear before the “lower” in the image of a strict teacher or displeased employer. And a woman (if a pair of heterosexual), in turn, should play the role of an obedient student or a modest housekeeper.
Next, you need to determine which of the partners will punish, and who – accept the punishment. For convenience, it is worth in advance to purchase special devices for flogging. It can be a whip, whip or a phlogger. If you want to strengthen sweet sensations and get special emotions, you can use a gag, a bondage (ropes, belts or handcuffs), a bandage to the eyes. It is better for beginners to start with light slap with your palm, after which barely visible pink traces remain on the body that disappears for half an hour.
Proceeding can occur both before sex – as a prelude, and already in the process of intimacy. In the second case, it will be inconvenient to use a whip or whip, you will have to get by with a palm (or two). Some simply take breaks between frictions, during which the dominant qualitatively punishes the “lower”.
Flagellation for the first time
Partners who have not yet tried this version of erotic games are unlikely to imagine how far they can go. The dominant should start with weak slaps and experimentally find out what force the enjoyment brings a passive partner. An important point – the “lower” cannot avoid pain. But it is the pain that allows you to plunge into the ecstasy that many describe as impossible bliss.
Start with uncomfortable poses and humiliating teams are not worth. Over time, when the “lower” will get used to such games, he himself can ask for a more tough attitude towards him. But the first time it is better to lay a passive partner with a stomach on a soft bed, putting a pillow under the buttocks. If in the process of flogging the “lower” will moan, cry and pray for mercy, erotic fun can become even more interesting. The main thing is to come up with a stop-word, which will mean that a passive partner no longer wants to continue the painful game. In this case, the dominant must immediately stop flagellation.
How to ensure security?
The dominant partner may be carried away and in a fit of passion to cause “lower” injuries. So that this does not happen, both participants in the game should be in a sober state. Before flogging, partners should discuss the upcoming entertainment and determine the permissible boundaries. If the dominant sees that bloody traces appeared on the body, and a passive partner asks to continue, you cannot listen to him. You need to stop flogging and treat wounds with a disinfectant.
Blows with a whip can only be applied to the buttocks. Slap with a palm on the face, crotch, footsteps are also acceptable. And the abdomen and back are forbidden flagellation zones.
Proceeding in sex is not a perversion, as it may seem to some, but a special way to give and receive painful sweet sensations.